Gay Marriage Green Cards and Impact on Immigration Reform


A fairly straightforward process available to most Americans—obtaining a green card for your foreign-born spouse—has caused many headaches and heartaches for same-sex couples. For these over 40,000 recorded eligible couples, they have been forced to live away from their spouses without recognition of their lives as a couple, with infrequent visits and harsh penalties for too much time together, and/or have had to live in exile in countries that allowed same-sex couples easy residency.
That all is changed after the recent decision by the U.S. Supreme Court to overturn the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA).… more

Hanging with Wyatt O’Brian Evans

Wyatt O'Brian Evans

Looking for a great book with a gay erotica twist that also presents realistic, deep and non-stereotypical characters?
Author, actor and activist Wyatt O’Brian Evans‘ new uncensored update to 2009′s Nothing Can Tear Us Apart is now available. Nothing Can Tear Us Apart: Uncensored is the exciting and compelling story of Wes and ‘Tonio – two masculine men of color (one African-American, one Latino) who confront daunting obstacles and struggles which jeopardize their monogamous relationship.
Sounds like a good read? It is. I am almost halfway through it (with some peeks at the final chapters to prepare for the interview) and have no plans to put it down.… more

Kirk Cameron Rants Again

Kirk Cameron

Former child star and homophobic bigot Kirk Cameron is in the headlines again, this time for spouting anti-gay rubbish against marriage equality in a special video for the homophobic National Organization for Marriage that seeks to deny equality to all lesbian and gay people, reports Jason Shaw.

Cameron is no stranger to gay hate, telling CNN’s Piers Morgan that homosexuality was “unnatural… I think that it’s detrimental, and ultimately destructive to so many of the foundations of civilization.” earlier this year.
During this new NOM video, Cameron proffers “If we want a great future in this world, we have to take God at his word, and God makes it really clear that society and civilization is really held together by the glue of families.”
Of course like most of the religious bigots, Kirk spouts off on taking god at his word, yet fails to live by that mantra, ignoring much of what the bible tells us are the words and laws of god.… more

The Competitive Agenda

Arm Wrestling

Since this is my first blog entry on this site, I’d like to start off with something that would grab your interest by the throat until you screamed for more. Or something like that. But that’s not my agenda; in this first paragraph at least. No, here, I get to say hi, with a little about myself, and give you a preview of the sorts of things I’ll be writing on.
Quick encapsulation of the stuff you’re not going to be able to derive – necessarily – from my writing: British, have lived in the US for 26 years, living with my b.f.… more